As irritating and vexing as he is, there is really no way to come to terms with that irritating asshole 'Donald Trumplethinskin.'
As a narcissist of the highest order there is NOTHING that will get him to change his ways. (Don't know if there is any genetics involved here, but it certainly has a lot to do with his privileged upbringing and the early formation of his personality.)
Imagine living your life feeling empty and hollow while building this huge persona that takes a lot of energy to maintain. Imagine never feeling good enough, because someone else is always better.Someone else has a prettier spouse, a bigger house, a flashier car or more prestigious job. ALWAYS. For all their work trying to impress everyone and get admiration… it’s never enough.
There’s not enough love in the world to fill that empty pit. No matter who you are or what you do, it’s not enough.So, here’s how you get revenge.Understand that their actions come from a place of emptiness. Forgive. Accept the apology you never got, for your own peace of mind. But don’t contact, ever.
Then go pursue your own happiness and find your true contentment- something the NPD will probably never have. Yeah, that’s a bunch of cliches but it really is the only healthy thing you can do.
https://www.quora.com/Don’t engage. Don’t escalate. Don’t feed the drama. Don’t waste your energy trying to make them love/hate you. Just ignore them as much as possible for your own peace of mind!