Perhaps this can serve as a guide as you evaluate what you see and hear from the new president:
The grandiose/malignant narcissist will go to great lengths to protect the identity and the world within which he operates. Treatment begins with the acceptance that there is an alternate way of looking at yourself and the world. An increase in symptom severity or duration is more likely when the narcissist is surrounded by sycophants, family, and enablers...!
P.S. While talking to a friend of mine I commented on how Trump's rhetoric made me feel uneasy ......, so he suggested I should pay attention to what he does, not what he says!
Then I got really scared!